The Three Gates

Before you speak, let your words pass through three gates: At the first gate, ask yourself, “Is it true? At the second gate ask, “Is it necessary?” At the third gate ask, “Is it kind?”  ~ Rumi  I have learned silence from the talkative, tolerance from the intolerant and kindness from the unkind. —Kahlil Gibran …

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Row A Little Boat

Several years ago, I had a friend who told me that she felt like she was in a rowboat on a river; and on the right side, her family of origin was pulling her their way with a tow rope. On the left side, her husband was pulling her his way. She said that she …

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The Courage to Live

Several years ago, I read about a Japanese Soldier who hid in a cave in Guam for 28 years.[i]  Local farmers came across the emaciated, frightened man, who was dressed in rags. It turns out that the Japanese attacked and captured the 200-square-mile island in the western Pacific during WWII in 1941. In 1944, U.S. …

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The True Point of Beginning

The origin of the universe has been debated since the first human stepped foot on this earth. Many preposterous stories have been proposed. One we’ve all heard, and one of the sweetest,  is told of a conversation between a little old lady and William James.  “[…] After a lecture on cosmology and the structure of …

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